8 Conversation Starters for a First Date

Photo by Ekrulila Meeting someone on a first date can be daunting. It can be a fun experience or it can be traumatic. You never know what you are getting. The essence of a first date is to test whether there is a possibility of something more. Sometimes, you can tell right off the bat … Continue reading 8 Conversation Starters for a First Date

7 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Marry an Unbeliever

        Photo by Shea Rouda Disclaimer! I wrote this post for the single woman who isn't married but is considering marriage in the future. If you are a believer and you are married to an unbeliever ( you have to work out your situation with God). This isn't a one shoe fits all kind of … Continue reading 7 Reasons Why You Shouldn’t Marry an Unbeliever

Different Personalities [ How they show up in Relationships].

Photo by Chris Murray. Relationships can be frustrating when we come in expecting the other person to be just like us. But when we know we are different, we can build relationships on the foundation of mutual understanding, tolerance, compromise, and empathy for the differences we see in each other. There are four personalities and … Continue reading Different Personalities [ How they show up in Relationships].

Restoring a Broken Relationship

Photo by Kelly Sikkema Relationships often consist of two broken people. Any relationship no matter how great will have a level of brokenness, some more than others. Most people give up on relationships when they begin to see the brokenness. Not every relationship needs to be thrown away. However, there has to be specific things … Continue reading Restoring a Broken Relationship

COURTSHIP: Why It Is Important.

Today we call it dating, but, I want to use the word courtship because dating has been so misused. What is courtship? It is a defined period where two people in a relationship decide to spend time getting to know each other with the intention of getting married in the foreseeable future. Courtship has a … Continue reading COURTSHIP: Why It Is Important.

God’s Design for Women in Relationships

Photo by Natalia Sobolivska What happens when two people get together and don’t know what the heck they are supposed to do?... Mess, confusion, and brokenness ensue. Whenever a man and woman get into a relationship and don’t know their designed role; they will steward that relationship in error. As women, what exactly is our … Continue reading God’s Design for Women in Relationships

Before The Vow

Photo by Sandy Millar At the onset, emotions and feelings are usually what drive the relationship. We choose someone because we are attracted to them first. We go on a couple of dates, and begin to develop an emotional attachment to each other. However, we can be fooled to believe that emotions are a solid … Continue reading Before The Vow

7 Dynamics of a Good Relationship

Photo by Khadeeja Yasser I wasn’t going to let the month of ‘love’ go by without slipping in a relationship post. Today I want to talk about a few things that define a good relationship. I say good because even great ones have room for improvement. For most people, it's not that we don't want … Continue reading 7 Dynamics of a Good Relationship

5 Relationship myths that will rob you of a great relationship.

Photo by Kelly Sikkema Relationship myths. With the internet, comes a lot of information some of which isn’t true. One of the most falsely represented is relationships. The internet has painted a picture of perfect couples, perfect marriages, perfect spouses which has misled a lot of people. Yes, relationships can be a great place where … Continue reading 5 Relationship myths that will rob you of a great relationship.

Does God choose for us?

Photo by Superkitina Wouldn’t it be nice if someone took the guesswork out of dating for you? Wouldn’t it be awesome if you knew exactly who you need to be with and when? Yet this is not how it works. Dating even in Christian circles is a complicated affair. But I do believe that if … Continue reading Does God choose for us?